Researchers have put forward the fact that women are more apologetic sex among the two. Be it their warm nature or their concern and care for other people’s emotions, women have genetically imbibed the habit of saying sorry even if it is not their fault. Apologizing when required is okay but bending down for no reason is not accepted. Indian women especially, are prone to use the word ‘sorry’ many times in a single day. We must understand the fact that excess of anything is harmful. Showing extremity in your withdrawing nature would just make you come out as someone who is weak and gives up easily. People will start taking your existence for granted. It is thus time to behave rationally and regain the lost respect.
Let us pledge and decide onto 7 things for which Indian women should not say sorry for.
BEING INDEPENDENT:
Independent nature brings a lot of perks with itself. You don’t have to wait for someone’s helping hand and all your life’s decisions are completely yours. So why apologize for staying free from all the society restraints. You’ve earned it on your own. Only women who are strong enough to choose a life for their own can be independent. Stay valiant and not apologetic.
FOR BEING CAREER MINDED:
It is not just the men who are meant to have a stabilized or a flourishing career. Current times like these ask the females also to contribute their lives with hard earned success. If you are one of those career minded ladies, then don’t hesitate to go ahead and stay out to work for hours. It requires correct mode of ambition to achieve the aggressive targets you set for yourselves. Let not the society’s shallow mindset hinder your goals and for once stop saying sorry if you are hungry for success after all it is a good thing.
FOR SAYING ‘NO’
Girl who always agrees and says ‘yes’ to things for she is not sure, will always remain gloomy and unhappy. Just because the others are okay with things, you don’t necessarily have to go along with the herd. Having a unique opinion is what counts as something big. Be brave and say no if you really want to. Falling prey to public pressures or emotional maneuvers will only pressurize your sense of freedom. No Indian women should follow that.
FOR YOUR CHOICES
Your choices make you the person you are. Indian women, like the men, can choose whatever they feel like. The way of living, the number of children to have, to work at home or out in the office, to cook or hire a chef, and many such decisions completes a woman as wholesome being. No one can trespass other’s right to choose. Thus to feel sorry for your choices is not at all a valid option.
DRESSING AND MAKE UP
Dressing sense is like another factor to characterize a lady. Her choice of clothes, the way she carries them, it is all up to her. If she herself is comfortable wearing fitted clothes and nicely done make up, them then why dare to care what others think about her dressing or her personality. It is not an Indian woman’s clothing and make up but the sly judgments regarding them, which should be condemned. If these judgment passing people cannot enhance their own backward thinking, why should it stop us from enhancing ourselves?
EARNING MORE THAN YOUR HUSBAND
Earning is earning, be it for yourself or your household. The clichéd assumption that females should not earn more than their husbands just to ensure their strong demeanor is miserably old and worn out. Today the real men don’t judge their manliness on the basis of their wife’s income. So if you’re procuring more money than him, it is your own capability and labor for which there is absolutely no need to be sorry.
BODY AND LOOKS:
Either you are fat or skinny, tall or short and dark or fair. These are just superficial specifications which cannot wholly define the real you. One should just allow the natural changes to take over and be what you are meant to be. It is not your fault if you do not fall under the 36-24-36 category or you are not supremely photogenic. It is your native being which you have to trust and not be sorry for your innate self.
Our advice to the Indian women would be, to just stop being so apologetic and feel proud of what you are and what you can achieve in life.
