Long distance relationships and arguments can have a unique and intricate relationship of their own if given a chance. Manly because both a long distance relationship and an argument, need anything wrong done to the factors of time and space to affect them individually. Also don’t forget the two parties involved who are at far places, be it physically or mentally to make or break the bond.
Every other person who is a part of a long distance relationship somehow after many initial fights realizes that the significant need to avoid and ignore any slight argument is REQUIRED. Even if one starts to find him or herself in the first stage of an argument then also there are some ways to stop it right there and focus on the most important part of your relationship that is the love that binds it.
These following 6 sensible ways to tackle argumentative situations in a long distance can guide you through the thickets of your love life when your partner is not in the same city or state or country or planet.
1. A SLIGHT COMPROMISE NEVER HURTS
Compromising is not a terrible option, after all you are bowing down to someone you love, right? Keep in mind the person matters, the argument will end.
2. IF YOU’RE GUILTY, JUST SURRENDER
Have absolutely no shame in accepting it and own up to your mistakes. This will only bring the two of you closer to your beloved and set an example for future arguments if you are too feisty.
3. THERE IS ALWAYS A GOOD OR BAD TIME FOR AN ARGUMENT
Don’t forget that timing plays a huge part too. Skip the wrong time and argue about things which are ‘worth’ fighting for!
4. NEVER SAY ANYTHING WORTH REGRETTING AFTERWARDS
You know your partner’s weaknesses really well, including the things which can drive their rage up to the wall. Never ever should you come out with something which will end up hurting the other person.
5. BE QUICK IN REBUILDING INTIMACY
Always Put things back on track. Intimacy is very important and issues often affect it the most.
6. FORGIVE AND FORGET, ALWAYS!
You love your partner and they love you too so figure the problem out, solve it, forgive each other and forget about it.
